Premature Ejaculation in Teenagers: Causes and Solutions - Urology

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Premature ejaculation issues?


Hello doctor, I have a few questions.
I am 13 years old, and I ejaculate in 10 to 20 seconds.
Is this a problem of premature ejaculation? If so, what would be the best way to address it? I appreciate your response, thank you.

Xiao Qiu, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/03/10

Dr. Fu Shizhang reply Urology


The definition of premature ejaculation generally pertains to sexual intercourse; it does not apply to masturbation or self-stimulation in medical terms.

Reply Date: 2016/03/10

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common concern among teenagers, and it can be a source of anxiety for many young males. At the age of 13, experiencing ejaculation within 10 to 20 seconds can indeed be classified as premature ejaculation, especially if it occurs consistently and causes distress or frustration. However, it’s important to understand that this is a developmental phase, and many factors can contribute to this condition.


Understanding Premature Ejaculation
1. Developmental Factors: During adolescence, the body undergoes significant hormonal changes, and sexual development is often accompanied by a range of experiences and emotions. The nervous system is still maturing, and this can affect sexual performance. Many teenagers experience rapid ejaculation as they learn to navigate their sexual responses.

2. Psychological Factors: Anxiety, stress, and performance pressure can significantly impact sexual function. If a teenager is worried about their sexual performance or feels pressure to perform, this can lead to quicker ejaculation. It’s essential to create a supportive environment where open discussions about sexual health and concerns can take place.

3. Physical Factors: Hormonal changes during puberty can also play a role in sexual function. Increased testosterone levels can lead to heightened sexual arousal, which may contribute to rapid ejaculation. Additionally, lack of experience and understanding of one’s body can lead to premature ejaculation.


Solutions and Management
1. Education and Awareness: Understanding that PE is common and often temporary can alleviate some anxiety. Educating oneself about sexual health, anatomy, and the physiological responses during sexual activity can empower teenagers to feel more in control.

2. Relaxation Techniques: Learning to manage anxiety through relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness, or meditation can help reduce performance pressure. These techniques can help a teenager feel more relaxed during intimate moments.

3. Communication: Open communication with partners about sexual experiences and concerns can help alleviate anxiety. It’s important to discuss feelings and expectations, which can foster a more comfortable environment.

4. Practice and Techniques: Some techniques can help manage premature ejaculation. The "stop-start" technique involves pausing during sexual activity when the urge to ejaculate is felt, allowing the sensation to subside before continuing. The "squeeze" technique involves squeezing the base of the penis to reduce arousal. These methods require practice and patience.

5. Consulting a Healthcare Professional: If premature ejaculation persists and continues to cause distress, it may be beneficial to consult a healthcare professional. A doctor can provide guidance and may suggest behavioral therapies or, in some cases, medications that can help manage the condition.

6. Avoiding Stimulants: Reducing the intake of stimulants such as caffeine or recreational drugs can also help manage anxiety and improve overall sexual function.


Conclusion
In summary, premature ejaculation in teenagers is a common issue that can be influenced by various factors, including developmental, psychological, and physical aspects. It’s crucial to approach this topic with understanding and openness. Encouraging education, communication, and relaxation techniques can significantly help manage the situation. If concerns persist, seeking advice from a healthcare professional can provide additional support and solutions. Remember, sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and addressing concerns early can lead to healthier sexual experiences in the future.

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