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Hello, doctor.
My facial bones are quite prominent, resembling a square face, and I find it very unattractive.
I previously visited a clinic for an examination, but the doctor said there were no abnormalities.
My friends also say it's normal.
However, I just can't accept my face shape and often feel that it is "different from others." Sometimes, this makes me feel down, and I really want to undergo surgery to improve it.
I recently read an article about body dysmorphic disorder and felt it somewhat resembles my situation.
Am I really experiencing a psychological issue? I find it very difficult to accept my face shape! Could you please help me with this? Thank you!
Guo, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2002/11/02
Dr. Chen Wenke reply Psychiatry
Based on what you have described, it seems that you are experiencing excessive anxiety and discomfort regarding your appearance, particularly an abnormal dissatisfaction with your facial shape, which has affected your daily life and interpersonal relationships.
It is likely that seeking help from a professional psychiatrist would be beneficial for your concerns.
Reply Date: 2002/11/02
More Info
Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) is a mental health condition characterized by an obsessive focus on perceived flaws in physical appearance, which may be minor or nonexistent. Individuals with BDD often find it difficult to accept their appearance, leading to significant emotional distress and impairment in daily functioning. Your concerns about your facial appearance, particularly regarding the shape of your face, align with the symptoms commonly associated with BDD.
It's important to understand that BDD is not merely about wanting to improve one's appearance; it is a serious psychological condition that can lead to severe anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts. People with BDD may spend excessive amounts of time checking their appearance in mirrors, seeking reassurance from others, or avoiding social situations due to their perceived flaws. This preoccupation can interfere with relationships, work, and overall quality of life.
In your case, despite medical professionals assuring you that there are no abnormalities with your facial structure, your persistent dissatisfaction suggests that your concerns may stem from a distorted self-image rather than an actual physical issue. This is a hallmark of BDD, where the individual’s perception of their appearance is significantly skewed.
Coping with BDD involves several strategies:
1. Seek Professional Help: Consulting a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, is crucial. They can provide a proper diagnosis and develop a treatment plan tailored to your needs. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is particularly effective for BDD, helping individuals challenge and change their negative thought patterns about their appearance.
2. Medication: In some cases, antidepressants, particularly selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), may be prescribed to help alleviate symptoms of BDD. These medications can help reduce obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors associated with the disorder.
3. Support Groups: Connecting with others who share similar experiences can be incredibly beneficial. Support groups provide a safe space to discuss feelings and coping strategies, reducing feelings of isolation.
4. Mindfulness and Self-Compassion: Practicing mindfulness can help you become more aware of your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Self-compassion involves treating yourself with kindness and understanding, especially during difficult times. This can help mitigate the harsh self-criticism often associated with BDD.
5. Limit Social Media Exposure: Social media can exacerbate feelings of inadequacy and comparison. Reducing your exposure to platforms that promote unrealistic beauty standards can help lessen the impact on your self-esteem.
6. Focus on Positive Attributes: Try to shift your focus from perceived flaws to your positive attributes and skills. Engaging in activities that you enjoy and excel at can help build your self-esteem and distract from negative thoughts about your appearance.
7. Educate Yourself: Understanding BDD and its effects can empower you to recognize that your feelings are part of a mental health condition rather than a reflection of reality. This knowledge can help you approach your situation with a more informed perspective.
In conclusion, while your concerns about your facial appearance are valid, it is essential to recognize that they may be rooted in a psychological condition rather than a physical defect. Seeking help from mental health professionals can provide you with the tools and support necessary to cope with these feelings and improve your overall well-being. Remember, you are not alone in this struggle, and there is help available.
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