Can You Get Pregnant from Outercourse? Safe Periods and Risks

Can I get pregnant?

Hello doctor, I recently finished my menstrual period and there are just a few drops of blood left.
I engaged in some outercourse with my boyfriend while he was wearing his underwear, although he had showered before that.
I am still a virgin and have never had penetrative vaginal intercourse.

1.
Is there a chance of pregnancy from this kind of rubbing?
2.
Is it considered a safe period since my menstrual period is almost over?
3.
What exactly defines a safe period?
4.
Since I am a virgin and there was no penetration or ejaculation, does rubbing against his genital area pose a lower risk of pregnancy?

Ms. Chen, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/02/08

Dr. Zhang Kunmin reply Obstetrics and Gynecology

Hello, based on your description, the chances of pregnancy are low since there are unlikely to be viable sperm present.
However, as long as there are active sperm in the vagina during the ovulation period, there is still a possibility of pregnancy regardless of the method of intercourse.
It is advisable to take appropriate contraceptive measures, and if necessary, consult a physician for evaluation.
Generally, using the calendar method to calculate safe periods for contraception is not recommended due to its high failure rate, which could lead to more complications.
Thank you! Wishing you safety and health.
Dr.
Zhang

Reply Date: 2021/02/08

More Info

When it comes to understanding the risks of pregnancy from outercourse, it's essential to clarify several key points about sexual activity, menstrual cycles, and the concept of safe periods.
1. Can You Get Pregnant from Outercourse?
Outercourse typically refers to sexual activities that do not involve vaginal penetration. This includes activities like mutual masturbation, oral sex, and dry humping. The risk of pregnancy from outercourse is generally low, especially if there is no direct genital-to-genital contact or ejaculation near the vaginal opening. However, it is important to note that pre-ejaculate fluid (pre-cum) can contain sperm. If there is any transfer of this fluid to the vaginal area, there is a potential risk of pregnancy, albeit small.

2. Is the End of Your Menstrual Period a Safe Time?
The end of your menstrual period is often considered a safer time for sexual activity in terms of avoiding pregnancy, but this is not a foolproof method. The "safe period" is based on the understanding of the menstrual cycle, where ovulation typically occurs about 14 days before the next period starts. However, cycles can vary significantly among individuals and even from month to month for the same person. If your cycle is irregular, it becomes even more challenging to predict ovulation accurately.

3. What Constitutes a Safe Period?
The safe period is calculated by tracking your menstrual cycle. Generally, the days leading up to ovulation (approximately 5 days before ovulation) and the day of ovulation itself are considered high-risk for pregnancy. The days after ovulation until the start of your next period are typically considered safer. However, this method requires a regular cycle and can be unreliable for those with irregular periods.
4. Does Being a Virgin Reduce the Risk of Pregnancy?
While being a virgin (not having engaged in vaginal intercourse) does reduce the risk of pregnancy, it does not eliminate it entirely if there is any genital contact. If there is no penetration and no ejaculation near the vaginal area, the risk is significantly lower. However, it is crucial to understand that any form of sexual activity carries some level of risk, especially if bodily fluids are involved.

In conclusion, while outercourse has a lower risk of pregnancy compared to penetrative sex, it is not entirely risk-free. If you are concerned about the possibility of pregnancy, consider discussing contraceptive options with your partner. Barrier methods, such as condoms, can provide additional protection during any form of sexual activity. If you have further concerns about your menstrual cycle or sexual health, consulting with a healthcare provider can provide personalized advice and guidance.

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