Social Anxiety and Depression: A Patient's Journey - Psychiatry

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Anxiety disorders and depression?


Hello, doctor.
I have severe social anxiety that prevented me from finishing college, and I have been too afraid to look for a job.
I don't want my family to know, so I've been pretending to go to work every day and returning home in the afternoon for a long time.
I also experience chronic mental disarray and difficulty concentrating.
I feel like I may have comorbid depression, as I often feel like crying, my mood is consistently low, and I lack the motivation to do anything.
It's been a long time since anything has sparked my interest.

Since there are few people in my household, I was originally the only one taking care of my grandmother.
After hiring a caregiver, I gained some companionship, but I started to fear that one day they would all be gone, leaving me alone.
I feel particularly anxious and panicked whenever the caregiver takes a day off.
Recently, I finally visited a psychiatrist, who diagnosed me with social anxiety disorder and generalized anxiety disorder, but did not mention depression.

Currently, I am taking the following medications: one Lorazepam in the morning, half a dose of Xanax three times a day, and one dose each of Doxepin and Clonazepam before bed.
After nearly two months of this regimen, I haven't noticed any improvement (except that Xanax does provide temporary relief from anxiety and panic).
Since I didn't finish college, I have no interests or specialties, and at my age, the thought of looking for a job terrifies me, leading me to continuously avoid reality.
I am also afraid that during each follow-up appointment, the doctor will think I am not making an effort to change.
Doctor, does working with a patient like me make you feel powerless? What benefits can Lorazepam and Clonazepam provide for my condition? Should I ask the doctor to increase my medication dosage or consider changing my medication?

lily, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2021/03/24

Dr. Lin Mianzhang reply Psychiatry


Hello Lily: Based on your description, it is indeed important to consider the possibility of depression.
Lexapro and Effexor are both antidepressants that can improve symptoms of depression, anxiety, and panic when taken at effective therapeutic doses.
However, the dosages of both medications you are currently taking are not high.
I recommend discussing with your physician whether an adjustment in medication is necessary (either increasing the dosage or switching medications are viable options).
In addition to medication, psychotherapy is also very important.
I suggest that you ask your physician for a referral for psychological therapy.
I have encountered many patients in my clinic with situations similar to yours, and most have shown significant improvement after treatment.
As a physician, I always hold onto hope, especially since you are still in the early stages of treatment and there are many therapeutic options yet to be explored.
Please have confidence in yourself! Wishing you a speedy recovery!

Reply Date: 2021/03/24

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It sounds like you are going through a very challenging time, and I want to acknowledge the courage it takes to share your experiences. Social anxiety and depression can be incredibly debilitating, and it's understandable that you feel overwhelmed by your circumstances. Let's break down your situation and explore some potential paths forward.

First, it's important to understand that social anxiety disorder (SAD) and depression often coexist. Many individuals with social anxiety experience feelings of worthlessness, hopelessness, and a lack of motivation, which are hallmark symptoms of depression. The fear of being judged or embarrassed in social situations can lead to avoidance behaviors, such as pretending to go to work while actually staying home. This cycle can exacerbate feelings of isolation and despair, making it even harder to seek help or engage with the world.

Your diagnosis of generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) alongside social anxiety suggests that you may be experiencing pervasive worry about various aspects of your life, including your future, relationships, and responsibilities. The anxiety about being alone, especially after the caregiver leaves, is a common concern for those who feel they lack support. This fear can intensify feelings of loneliness and depression.

Regarding your medication regimen, it seems you are currently taking a combination of medications, including Lorazepam (Lushutuo), Sertraline (Zan'an'nuo), and others. Lorazepam is a benzodiazepine that can provide short-term relief from anxiety and panic symptoms, but it is not a long-term solution due to the potential for dependence and tolerance. Sertraline, on the other hand, is a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) commonly prescribed for both anxiety and depression. It can take several weeks to notice significant improvements in mood and anxiety levels, and it's crucial to give it time to work.

If you feel that your current medication is not providing the relief you need, it is essential to communicate this with your doctor. They can assess whether an adjustment in dosage or a change in medication might be beneficial. It's also worth noting that medication alone may not be sufficient to address the complexities of social anxiety and depression. Incorporating psychotherapy, particularly cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), can be highly effective. CBT focuses on identifying and challenging negative thought patterns and behaviors, helping you develop coping strategies to manage anxiety in social situations.

In terms of your feelings of inadequacy regarding your education and job prospects, it's important to remember that many people face similar challenges. Completing a degree or gaining work experience can feel daunting, but taking small, manageable steps can lead to progress. Consider exploring volunteer opportunities or part-time work that aligns with your interests, even if they are outside your comfort zone. This can help build your confidence and provide a sense of purpose.

Lastly, it's crucial to have open communication with your family about your struggles. While it may feel daunting, sharing your experiences can foster understanding and support. You don't have to face this alone, and having a support system can make a significant difference in your recovery journey.

In summary, while it may feel overwhelming right now, there are paths to improvement. Continue to work closely with your healthcare provider, consider integrating therapy into your treatment plan, and take small steps toward re-engaging with the world around you. Remember, recovery is a journey, and it's okay to seek help along the way. You are not alone in this, and with time and support, things can get better.

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