Need advice on mindset?
Hi Dr.
Lin,
For the past several months, I've been feeling a lot of pressure from studying.
Whenever I take a break, I feel like I'm wasting time and constantly think that I'm not doing enough, which creates a vicious cycle.
While studying, I feel like I'm not focused enough and keep criticizing myself.
During my normal rest periods, I feel inadequate and think I should be using that time to study more, which leads to a complete lack of joy in my studying (I only feel happy during breaks).
The stress has even gotten so intense that I have trouble with bowel movements.
However, when I tell myself to take a complete break from studying for the day, I suddenly feel relaxed and in a good mood, and I even feel the urge to have a bowel movement.
Because of this, I've consulted a gastroenterologist.
I would like to ask for some advice on how to adjust my mindset.
I feel like my current mentality is very poor, and I really need help changing it.
Thank you for your hard work.
By the way, I've asked you several questions before, and I truly appreciate your thoughtful and warm responses.
I hope this will be the last time I bother you about this.
I feel much better overall, and I've been off medication for almost a year now.
Thank you!
A, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/11/10
Dr. Lin Mianzhang reply Psychiatry
Hi there! You might want to consider why you are studying in the first place.
If it's to prepare for exams, then rest is just as important as studying.
Only with adequate rest can you enhance your study efficiency, which will help you achieve good results on your exams.
Otherwise, if you focus solely on studying without taking breaks, you may become overly fatigued and mentally drained, leading to decreased study effectiveness and poor performance during exams.
It's similar to professional basketball players; they can't play games every day and expect to play the entire duration of each game without risking sports injuries.
So, taking breaks is essential for you to study more efficiently; it is definitely not a waste of time or laziness! Keep it up!
Reply Date: 2022/11/10
More Info
Hello! It sounds like you’re going through a challenging time with the pressures of studying and the impact it’s having on your mental health. First, I want to acknowledge your feelings; it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed, especially in a demanding academic environment. Many students experience similar pressures, and it’s important to address these feelings before they escalate further.
Understanding the Pressure
The pressure to perform academically can lead to a cycle of anxiety and self-criticism. You mentioned feeling like you’re wasting time when you take breaks, which is a common thought pattern among students who are perfectionists or who have high expectations for themselves. This mindset can create a toxic environment where you feel guilty for not studying, even when rest is essential for your mental and physical well-being.
The Importance of Balance
One key aspect of overcoming study pressure is finding a balance between work and rest. It’s crucial to understand that breaks are not a waste of time; they are an essential part of the learning process. Research shows that taking regular breaks can enhance productivity and improve focus. When you allow yourself to rest, you give your brain the opportunity to consolidate information and recharge, which can ultimately lead to better performance when you return to studying.
Strategies for Managing Study Pressure
1. Set Realistic Goals: Break your study sessions into manageable chunks with specific, achievable goals. Instead of saying, “I need to study for three hours,” try “I will study this chapter for 30 minutes.” This can help reduce feelings of being overwhelmed.
2. Create a Study Schedule: Having a structured plan can help you allocate time for both studying and breaks. Schedule short breaks every hour to step away from your work, stretch, or do something enjoyable.
3. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing or meditation, can help you manage anxiety and improve your focus. Even a few minutes of mindfulness practice can help clear your mind and reduce stress.
4. Challenge Negative Thoughts: When you catch yourself thinking that you’re not doing enough, try to reframe that thought. Instead of “I’m wasting time,” remind yourself that rest is productive and necessary for your overall well-being.
5. Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or mental health professionals. Talking about your feelings can provide relief and help you gain perspective. If you feel comfortable, consider discussing your struggles with a counselor at your school.
6. Physical Activity: Incorporating regular exercise into your routine can significantly improve your mood and reduce stress. Even a short walk can help clear your mind and boost your energy levels.
7. Nutrition and Sleep: Pay attention to your diet and sleep patterns. Proper nutrition and adequate sleep are vital for cognitive function and emotional regulation. If you’re experiencing digestive issues, it might be beneficial to consult with a healthcare provider to address those concerns.
Conclusion
It’s great to hear that you’ve made progress and have been off medication for a while. However, if you find that your mental health is still being affected by study pressures, it might be worth revisiting the idea of professional support. Therapy can provide you with tools to cope with stress and help you develop healthier thought patterns.
Remember, you’re not alone in this, and seeking help is a sign of strength. By implementing these strategies, you can create a more balanced approach to your studies and improve your overall mental health. Take care of yourself, and don’t hesitate to reach out for support when you need it. Good luck!
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