Sexual dysfunction
Doctor, I would like to ask, every time I masturbate, I feel the urge to ejaculate within 40 seconds to 1 minute.
This has been the case since I first started masturbating last year.
The longest I can last is only 2 minutes.
I hear my classmates can last over 10 minutes before wanting to ejaculate, and I find it strange.
Could I have some kind of condition? I'm only 15 years old...
Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/02/06
Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology
Hello: "Eager to ejaculate" and "already ejaculated" are not the same! Additionally, you are only 15 years old and may be experiencing natural changes; it's just a phase.
These issues will improve as you age and gain more experience, so there's no need to worry too much!
Reply Date: 2023/02/06
More Info
Premature ejaculation (PE) is a common concern among adolescents and can be a source of anxiety for many young men. At 15 years old, it is important to understand that your body is still developing, and variations in sexual function, including ejaculation timing, are quite normal.
Premature ejaculation is generally defined as ejaculation that occurs with minimal sexual stimulation, often within one minute of penetration or masturbation. In your case, experiencing ejaculation within 40 seconds to 2 minutes during masturbation is considered premature by some definitions. However, it is essential to recognize that there is a wide range of what is considered "normal" when it comes to sexual performance, especially in adolescents.
Several factors can contribute to premature ejaculation, including psychological factors such as anxiety, stress, or performance pressure. At your age, it is common to feel nervous about sexual performance, especially when comparing yourself to peers. This anxiety can create a cycle where the pressure to perform leads to quicker ejaculation, which in turn increases anxiety.
Physiological factors may also play a role. Hormonal changes during puberty can affect sexual function, and the nervous system's development can influence ejaculation timing. It is also worth noting that sexual experiences can vary greatly among individuals, and what is typical for one person may not be for another.
If you are concerned about your ejaculation timing, there are several strategies you can consider:
1. Relaxation Techniques: Learning to relax can help reduce anxiety. Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness can be beneficial.
2. Desensitization Techniques: Some individuals find that practicing control over their arousal can help. This might include stopping stimulation before ejaculation and starting again after a brief pause.
3. Communication: If you have a partner, open communication about your concerns can help alleviate pressure and create a more supportive environment.
4. Consultation with a Professional: If your concerns persist or significantly impact your quality of life, consider speaking with a healthcare professional. They can provide guidance and may suggest behavioral techniques or, in some cases, medication.
5. Education: Understanding more about sexual health can help demystify the experience and reduce anxiety. Resources such as books, reputable websites, or discussions with a trusted adult can provide valuable information.
It's important to remember that many young men experience similar concerns, and you are not alone in this. As you continue to grow and mature, your sexual function may change, and what feels like a problem now may resolve itself over time.
In conclusion, while premature ejaculation can be concerning, it is often a normal part of adolescent development. By focusing on relaxation, communication, and education, you can navigate this phase of your sexual health with greater confidence. If you feel that your situation is causing significant distress, seeking professional advice is a wise step.
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