What kind of treatment should I seek? (What should I do?)
Since childhood, I have felt uncomfortable interacting with everyone except my mother and sister, suppressing my true thoughts.
Now that I'm in high school, this issue has become increasingly severe.
My life is miserable, and I struggle with social interactions.
I'm not sure how to describe my feelings when I'm with others, as they are complex emotions layered together that I can't articulate.
I even find it hard to concentrate during exams, constantly glancing at the people next to me.
My personality has changed significantly, and I just feel exhausted.
I've seen a psychiatrist and utilized health insurance counseling, but it was completely unhelpful.
I'm wondering if hypnotherapy could help me understand why I feel this way.
Would treatment for autonomic nervous system dysregulation be beneficial, or what else can I do? (Additional note: I find it difficult to openly share my thoughts and feelings with doctors, which is why I'm considering hypnotherapy.)
Xiao Jie, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2023/02/26
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello: The symptoms you described may indicate social anxiety disorder.
Seeking medical treatment or psychological counseling could improve the situation, but it requires more patience, as alleviating anxiety takes time.
If you are considering hypnosis as a treatment option, it is advisable to consult with a psychiatrist (or psychosomatic specialist) who has expertise in hypnosis for evaluation and discussion.
Reply Date: 2023/02/26
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Social anxiety disorder (SAD) can be a debilitating condition that significantly impacts one's quality of life, especially during formative years like high school. Your feelings of discomfort in social situations, difficulty expressing your true thoughts, and the overwhelming nature of your emotions are common experiences for those struggling with social anxiety. It’s commendable that you are seeking help and exploring various treatment options.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is often considered the gold standard for treating social anxiety. It focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to anxiety. However, it seems that you have found limited success with traditional therapy methods. This can be frustrating, but it’s important to remember that finding the right therapeutic approach can take time and may require some trial and error.
One effective strategy within CBT is to analyze automatic thoughts. These are the immediate, often negative thoughts that arise in response to social situations. To identify these thoughts, you might keep a journal where you note situations that trigger your anxiety, the thoughts that come to mind, and the emotions you feel. Over time, you can look for patterns in your thinking. For instance, if you often think, “Everyone will judge me,” you can challenge this thought by asking yourself for evidence that supports or contradicts it.
Finding core beliefs is another critical step in CBT. Core beliefs are deeply held beliefs about oneself, others, and the world. They often stem from past experiences and can be difficult to identify. You can explore these beliefs by reflecting on your childhood experiences and how they may have shaped your view of yourself and your interactions with others. Questions like “What do I believe about myself in social situations?” or “What do I fear will happen if I engage with others?” can help uncover these beliefs.
Dynamic psychology, particularly the concept of Core Conflictual Relationship Theme (CCRT), can also be beneficial. This approach focuses on understanding the patterns in your relationships and how they relate to your anxiety. By examining your interactions with others, you can identify recurring themes, such as a fear of rejection or a desire for approval. Understanding these themes can help you address the underlying issues contributing to your social anxiety.
Regarding the connection between social anxiety and narcissistic traits, it’s essential to understand that while they can coexist, they are distinct. Social anxiety often involves a fear of negative evaluation, while narcissism may involve an inflated sense of self-importance and a need for admiration. Exploring these traits with a therapist can provide insights into your behavior and emotional responses.
If you are considering hypnotherapy, it can be a useful adjunct to traditional therapies for some individuals. Hypnosis may help you access deeper emotional states and uncover underlying issues contributing to your anxiety. However, it’s crucial to work with a qualified professional who specializes in this area.
In addition to therapy, lifestyle changes can also support your mental health. Regular physical activity, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep can significantly impact your mood and anxiety levels. Mindfulness practices, such as meditation or yoga, can also help you manage anxiety symptoms.
Lastly, if you feel that your current treatment isn’t effective, don’t hesitate to discuss this with your healthcare provider. Medication can be a helpful component of treatment for social anxiety, but it may take time to find the right medication and dosage. Open communication with your doctor about your experiences and concerns is vital for finding the most effective treatment plan.
In conclusion, overcoming social anxiety is a journey that often requires a multifaceted approach. Combining cognitive-behavioral strategies, exploring deeper emotional issues, considering alternative therapies like hypnotherapy, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle can all contribute to your recovery. Remember, it’s okay to seek help and advocate for yourself in your treatment process. You are not alone in this, and with persistence and the right support, improvement is possible.
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