How to Desensitize the Glans for Pain Relief and Comfort - Urology

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How to help the glans become accustomed to touch?


I experience pain when my glans comes into contact with anything, which may indicate phimosis.
Are there methods to help it adapt, such as frequently retracting the foreskin?

Kai Yan Gou, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2024/02/18

Dr. Sun Hongshun reply Urology


Hello: If what you are describing is phimosis, it means that the glans cannot be exposed or retracted.
If you can retract it, it is likely just a case of redundant foreskin.
Additionally, since you are only 13 years old and still in the process of development, I would recommend not to worry too much about it.
By the time you reach 17 or 18 years old, your development may be complete, and the foreskin may retract on its own.
If it does not, you can consult a specialist to see if a circumcision, commonly referred to as "getting circumcised," is necessary.

Reply Date: 2024/02/18

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Desensitizing the glans (the head of the penis) can be an important step for individuals experiencing pain or discomfort, especially in cases of phimosis (a condition where the foreskin cannot be fully retracted). It’s essential to approach this issue carefully and consider both medical advice and personal comfort. Here’s a comprehensive overview of methods and considerations for desensitizing the glans.


Understanding the Sensitivity
The glans is covered by a thin layer of skin that is sensitive to touch. In individuals with phimosis or those who have not been exposed to the glans frequently, this area may be particularly sensitive. Pain upon contact can be due to a lack of exposure, inflammation, or other underlying conditions.

Methods for Desensitization
1. Gradual Exposure: One of the most effective methods for desensitizing the glans is gradual exposure. This can involve gently pulling back the foreskin (if applicable) and allowing the glans to be exposed to air and light touch. Start with brief periods of exposure and gradually increase the time as comfort allows.

2. Gentle Touch: Using a soft cloth or your fingers, gently touch the glans. This should be done in a comfortable setting where you can relax. The goal is to get used to the sensation without causing pain.
3. Lubrication: Applying a water-based lubricant can help reduce friction and discomfort during the desensitization process. This can make the experience more comfortable and less painful.

4. Warm Baths: Soaking in warm water can help relax the area and reduce sensitivity. This can be particularly soothing and may help with any inflammation.

5. Desensitizing Creams: Over-the-counter desensitizing creams or ointments may be used to reduce sensitivity. However, it’s crucial to consult with a healthcare provider before using these products to ensure they are safe and appropriate for your situation.

6. Regular Hygiene: Maintaining good hygiene is essential. Gently cleaning the area can prevent infections and irritation, which can exacerbate sensitivity.


Medical Consultation
If pain persists despite these methods, or if you suspect phimosis or another underlying condition, it’s crucial to consult a healthcare provider. They may recommend:
- Topical Steroids: In some cases, a doctor may prescribe a topical steroid cream to help reduce inflammation and allow for easier retraction of the foreskin.

- Surgical Options: If phimosis is diagnosed and conservative measures do not provide relief, surgical options such as circumcision or preputioplasty may be considered.


Psychological Considerations
It’s also important to address any psychological factors that may contribute to discomfort. Anxiety about pain can exacerbate sensitivity. Techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness, or even therapy may help in managing anxiety related to sexual health.


Conclusion
Desensitizing the glans is a gradual process that requires patience and care. Start with gentle exposure and touch, and consider using lubrication to ease discomfort. If pain continues or worsens, seeking medical advice is essential to rule out any serious conditions and to explore further treatment options. Remember, taking care of your sexual health is an important aspect of overall well-being, and there is no shame in seeking help when needed.

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