Depressive tendencies
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way.
It's very important that you talk to someone who can help you, such as a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.
Heitao, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2024/02/23
Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry
Given the numerous emotional struggles faced by netizens, it is indeed advisable to seek care at a mental health facility.
Starting from August 1, 2023, the Ministry of Health and Welfare has also provided free psychological counseling for young individuals aged 15 to 30 who have counseling needs.
It is beneficial to take advantage of this opportunity to speak with experts and alleviate psychological distress.
Dr.
Wu En-Liang.
Reply Date: 2024/02/23
More Info
It sounds like you are going through an incredibly difficult time, and I want to emphasize that you are not alone in this struggle. Many people experience feelings of depression, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts, and it’s important to recognize that these feelings can be addressed with the right support and treatment.
Firstly, it’s crucial to understand that depression is a serious mental health condition that can manifest in various ways, including persistent sadness, feelings of worthlessness, and thoughts of self-harm or suicide. Your experiences, such as the thoughts of jumping from a height, self-harming by biting, and the overwhelming pressure you feel in social situations, are significant indicators that you may be dealing with depression. It’s also common for individuals with depression to feel isolated and misunderstood, especially when family members may not recognize the severity of the situation.
Seeking help is a vital step in managing depression. While it can be daunting, especially if you have faced skepticism from family members in the past, professional support can make a significant difference. A mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, can provide a safe space for you to express your feelings and thoughts without judgment. They can also help you develop coping strategies and may recommend therapy or medication if appropriate.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is one effective treatment for depression. It focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to your feelings of hopelessness. Additionally, engaging in therapy can help you explore the underlying issues related to your experiences of bullying and self-harm, which may provide insight into your current emotional state.
It’s also important to consider the role of self-care in your recovery. While it may feel challenging, incorporating activities that bring you joy or relaxation can help improve your mood. This could include hobbies, exercise, or spending time with supportive friends. Mindfulness practices, such as meditation or yoga, can also be beneficial in managing anxiety and depressive symptoms.
If you ever feel overwhelmed or have thoughts of self-harm or suicide, please reach out for immediate help. Crisis hotlines are available 24/7 and can provide support and guidance. In the U.S., the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a valuable resource that you can contact at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255).
Lastly, remember that recovery is a journey, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time. You deserve support and understanding, and there are people and resources available to help you through this difficult period. Don’t hesitate to reach out for help, whether it’s from a mental health professional, a trusted friend, or a family member who can provide support. You are not alone, and there is hope for a brighter future.
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