Is the frequency of masturbation too high?
Hello doctor, I am 14 years old.
I have been masturbating for almost a year, about five times a week.
Recently, I noticed that I ejaculate quickly, so now I only do it about once a week.
Taking breaks seems to help a bit, but I can't do it consecutively, and it varies from time to time.
I don't dare to talk to my parents about it.
What should I do? I've seen some information online saying it could lead to hormone loss or kidney problems.
Am I going to have issues with my growth? I'm really anxious.
I also recently noticed some discomfort in my vas deferens; could I have injured it? At my age, is it enough to just take a break, or should I get checked for any injuries? Is my frequency of masturbation too high?
Niming, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2024/06/19
Dr. Du Shixi reply Urology
Hello: It depends on the individual; if there are some changes, it can be reduced, and most of the time it can be restored.
Wishing you good health.
Reply Date: 2024/06/19
More Info
It's completely normal for a 14-year-old to have questions and concerns about masturbation, especially given the changes happening during puberty. At your age, your body is going through significant hormonal changes, and masturbation is a common behavior among adolescents. Let's break down your concerns.
1. Frequency of Masturbation: Masturbation is a natural and normal activity. The frequency of 5 times a week is within a typical range for many adolescents. However, if you feel that it is interfering with your daily life, responsibilities, or causing physical discomfort, it might be worth considering reducing the frequency. It's essential to listen to your body and understand what feels right for you.
2. Physical Discomfort: You mentioned experiencing some discomfort in your spermatic duct. This could be due to a variety of reasons, including overactivity or even just normal sensations that can occur during puberty. If the discomfort persists, it would be wise to consult a healthcare professional. They can provide a proper examination and reassurance.
3. Hormonal Concerns: There is a lot of misinformation online regarding masturbation and its effects on hormones or bodily functions. Masturbation does not cause hormone loss or damage to your kidneys. In fact, it can have several health benefits, including stress relief and a better understanding of your body.
4. Growth and Development: Concerns about growth due to masturbation are unfounded. Your growth is primarily influenced by genetics and overall health, not by masturbation. As long as you maintain a balanced diet, exercise, and get enough sleep, your growth should not be adversely affected.
5. Communication with Parents: It’s understandable to feel hesitant about discussing these topics with your parents, but they can be a valuable source of support and information. If you feel comfortable, consider talking to them about your feelings or concerns. If not, you might want to speak with a trusted adult or a healthcare provider who can offer guidance.
6. When to Seek Help: If you notice any persistent pain, discomfort, or changes in your body that concern you, it’s essential to seek medical advice. A healthcare professional can provide you with accurate information and help you address any physical or emotional concerns you may have.
In summary, masturbation is a normal part of adolescent development, and your frequency seems typical for your age. Pay attention to your body, and if discomfort arises, don’t hesitate to seek medical advice. Remember, it's essential to prioritize your overall well-being, both physically and mentally. If you have further questions or concerns, consider reaching out to a healthcare provider who can provide personalized guidance.
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