Fetishism
Hello Dr.
Chen, I have had this question on my mind for quite some time, but I have not been able to determine whether this is what is referred to as a "fetish." Since high school, I have had a strong preference for a particular scent, which is the smell of "body powder" (baby powder).
After taking a shower, I habitually apply body powder all over my body, and during this time, I also experience physiological reactions, likely due to my fondness for this scent.
I also use body powder on my genitals during masturbation; when I smell this scent on female friends nearby, it triggers impulses, but fortunately, my rationality prevails over these desires.
This preference has continued into my professional life, and I have not changed, although I have collected various types of body powder.
When I want to use a different fragrance, I have various options to choose from.
I once heard a psychologist say that this is a habit formed during adolescence, and since you specialize in adolescent mental health, I am seeking your assistance, Dr.
Chen.
Thank you!
Xiao Yu, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/10/09
Dr. Chen Meizhu reply Psychiatry
Hello, Xiaoyu: Everyone has certain special preferences and collections for certain items.
As long as these hobbies do not cause disruptions in daily life, work, or social adaptation, they are generally acceptable and do not require special correction.
However, if an excessive preference for certain items leads to strong physiological reactions and results in anxiety, emotional instability, or harm and interference to others, it is important to seek medical treatment promptly.
From your letter, it seems that collecting various scented talcum powders is not inherently right or wrong; it is merely an impulsive connection to the scent of talcum powder.
However, you should be cautious about impulse control, and if you find it difficult to manage impulsive behaviors, seeking medical treatment is advisable.
Best wishes!
Reply Date: 2005/10/09
More Info
Fetishism, particularly in the context of attachment to specific scents such as that of scented powders, can be understood through various psychological lenses. Your experience of having a strong preference for the scent of body powder, which elicits both emotional and physiological responses, aligns with the definition of a fetish. In psychological terms, a fetish is often characterized by a strong sexual attraction to a specific object, material, or sensory experience, which in your case is the scent of body powder.
From a developmental perspective, it is not uncommon for individuals to form attachments to certain scents or objects during adolescence. This period is crucial for identity formation and the establishment of personal preferences. The fact that you have maintained this preference into adulthood suggests that it has become a significant part of your sensory experience and possibly your self-identity. The physiological reactions you describe, particularly during intimate moments, indicate that the scent has a strong associative link to arousal and comfort for you.
It is important to note that fetishistic behaviors can vary widely in their expression and impact on an individual's life. For some, these preferences are benign and do not interfere with daily functioning or relationships. However, for others, they may lead to distress or complications in social interactions. In your case, it seems that you have a healthy awareness of your preferences and maintain control over your impulses, which is a positive sign.
The psychological community often views fetishism as a spectrum. While some individuals may experience distress or dysfunction due to their fetishes, others, like yourself, may find them to be a harmless aspect of their identity. The key is whether these preferences interfere with your daily life or relationships. If they do not, and you are able to engage with them in a way that feels safe and consensual, then they can be considered a part of your personal expression rather than a disorder.
If you are concerned about the implications of your attachment to the scent of body powder, or if it begins to interfere with your life, it may be beneficial to speak with a mental health professional who specializes in sexual health or fetishism. They can provide a safe space to explore these feelings and help you understand them better.
In summary, your attachment to the scent of body powder can be classified as a form of fetishism, which is not uncommon and can be a normal part of human sexuality. As long as it does not negatively impact your life or relationships, it can be embraced as a unique aspect of your identity. However, should you feel any distress or confusion regarding these feelings, seeking professional guidance could provide clarity and support.
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