I don't know if it's reality or fantasy..?
Doctor: I recently skipped work because my job is far from home...
I was supposed to get reprimanded for it! However, I returned to work recently and surprisingly, I wasn't scolded...
Before skipping work, I had already left them with a not-so-good impression! When I was at home and not working, my mom often scolded me! I didn't dare to answer calls from family or my boss! After about twenty days, I went back to work...
but the feeling was completely different! Even though the same events occurred, everything feels different now! I really don't know if I'm avoiding reality...
or if I'm just overthinking things! Can you please tell me what I should do? Thank you!
yú, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/12/12
Dr. Chen Wenyu reply Psychiatry
Hello, from your letter, it seems that your boss is truly a gracious person.
How many bosses can tolerate employees coming and going as they please? In a lifetime, it's rare to encounter such a good boss.
This is not an illusion or a matter of reality; it's simply your good fortune to have met this boss.
Keep up the good work and ensure that your boss's kindness does not lose its value.
Thank you for your letter!
Reply Date: 2007/12/12
More Info
Navigating mental health challenges in the workplace can be a complex and often overwhelming experience. Your situation reflects a common struggle many individuals face when dealing with stress, anxiety, and the pressures of work life. It’s important to recognize that what you’re feeling is valid, and seeking help is a crucial step in addressing these challenges.
From your description, it seems you have experienced a significant shift in your work environment and personal circumstances. The feelings of anxiety and avoidance you mentioned, such as skipping work and feeling apprehensive about interactions with your boss and family, are indicative of a deeper emotional struggle. This could be a manifestation of anxiety, stress, or even an adjustment disorder, especially considering the changes in your work situation.
Understanding Your Feelings
1. Avoidance Behavior: Skipping work can often be a coping mechanism for dealing with overwhelming feelings. It’s a way to escape the stressors that you find difficult to confront. However, this avoidance can lead to a cycle of guilt and anxiety, making it harder to return to work.
2. Perception of Reality: You mentioned feeling like you are escaping reality or overthinking your situation. This can be a sign of anxiety, where your mind races with thoughts of what could go wrong, leading to a heightened state of worry. It’s essential to differentiate between rational concerns and those that may be exaggerated by anxiety.
3. Impact of Environment: The workplace environment plays a significant role in mental health. If you feel unsupported or judged, it can exacerbate feelings of inadequacy and anxiety. It’s crucial to assess whether your workplace is conducive to your mental well-being.
Steps to Consider
1. Seek Professional Help: Consulting with a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist, can provide you with the tools to manage your anxiety. They can help you explore your feelings in a safe environment and develop coping strategies tailored to your situation.
2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This form of therapy is particularly effective for anxiety and avoidance behaviors. It helps you identify negative thought patterns and replace them with more constructive ones. CBT can empower you to face your fears and reduce avoidance behaviors.
3. Open Communication: If you feel comfortable, consider discussing your feelings with your supervisor or HR. They may be able to provide support or accommodations that can help ease your transition back to work.
4. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Incorporating mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, can help ground you in the present moment and reduce anxiety. These techniques can be beneficial in managing stress both at work and at home.
5. Set Realistic Goals: When returning to work, set small, achievable goals for yourself. This can help build your confidence and create a sense of accomplishment, making the transition feel less daunting.
6. Support System: Lean on friends, family, or support groups. Sharing your experiences with others who understand can provide comfort and reduce feelings of isolation.
Conclusion
It’s essential to acknowledge that navigating mental health challenges in the workplace is a journey that requires patience and self-compassion. You are not alone in this struggle, and there are resources available to help you. By taking proactive steps to address your feelings and seeking support, you can work towards a healthier relationship with your work environment and yourself. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help, and doing so is a sign of strength, not weakness.
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