Sleep disorders & emotional depression
Hello Dr.
Chen,
I am a senior student and have been experiencing severe sleep problems since high school.
Every night, I find myself overthinking and it takes me about 2 to 3 hours to fall asleep.
I have tried various methods such as relaxation techniques, drinking warm milk before bed, and taking traditional Chinese medicine, but none have significantly improved my situation.
Since the third grade, I have been easily anxious; for example, remembering what time to do laundry or when to go out to buy food makes me feel very tense, often resulting in stomach pain and diarrhea.
When I visit the clinic, doctors usually prescribe me antacids and anti-diarrheal medication.
I wonder if this is related to my sleep issues? I feel depressed almost every day.
In the past, I needed a lot of friends around me, but when they went home at night, I felt very empty.
Now, I really want to talk to friends, but I feel too lazy to reach out.
Over time, I have found it increasingly difficult to even think about conversing with others, and my friends have gradually disappeared.
When I do talk to someone, I often struggle to make eye contact, lack confidence, and feel nervous, which sometimes leads to tears.
I also frequently have suicidal thoughts and can be easily affected by minor issues.
I want to confide in my family, but my parents tend to worry excessively, and my mother can be quite hysterical, so I don’t know what to do.
Recently, I have started to develop a habit of biting myself, as I feel that physical pain can help me forget my unhappiness.
I would like to ask the doctor if there are any methods to improve my sleep and simple daily stress-relief techniques that I can practice.
Nina, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2009/07/06
Dr. Chen Yuying reply Psychiatry
Hello Nina: There are many "methods to improve sleep and simple stress relief techniques that can be done daily," but I noticed that you have already tried many approaches: you have attempted to relax, drink warm milk, take traditional Chinese medicine, and even visit a clinic for appetite stimulants...
haven't you? I am a bit concerned about your current emotional state and recommend that you fill out the "Taiwan Depression Scale" on the Dong's Foundation website: http://www.jtf.org.tw/overblue/taiwan1/.
If your score exceeds 18, you will need professional psychological and medical assistance, not just stress relief methods.
Reply Date: 2009/07/06
More Info
It sounds like you are experiencing a complex interplay of sleep disorders, anxiety, and depressive symptoms, which is not uncommon among students, especially those under academic pressure. Your situation is concerning, and it’s important to address both your sleep issues and the underlying emotional distress you are feeling.
Understanding Your Sleep Issues
Sleep disorders can manifest in various ways, including difficulty falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up too early. The fact that you spend 2-3 hours trying to fall asleep each night suggests that you may be dealing with insomnia, which can be exacerbated by anxiety and stress. The constant rumination and worry you describe can create a cycle where anxiety leads to sleep disturbances, and poor sleep further increases anxiety.
The Impact of Anxiety and Depression
Your feelings of emptiness, lack of motivation to engage with friends, and the physical symptoms of anxiety (like stomach pain and diarrhea) indicate that your mental health is significantly affected. Anxiety can often lead to physical symptoms, and the emotional toll can result in depressive feelings. It’s crucial to recognize that these feelings are valid and that seeking help is a strong and positive step.
Recommendations for Improvement
1. Seek Professional Help: It’s essential to consult with a mental health professional, such as a psychologist or psychiatrist. They can provide a proper assessment and recommend appropriate treatments, which may include therapy (like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and medication if necessary.
2. Establish a Sleep Routine: Try to create a consistent sleep schedule by going to bed and waking up at the same time every day, even on weekends. This helps regulate your body’s internal clock.
3. Create a Relaxing Bedtime Environment: Make your bedroom conducive to sleep. This includes keeping the room dark, quiet, and cool. Consider using earplugs or a white noise machine if noise is an issue.
4. Limit Screen Time Before Bed: The blue light emitted by screens can interfere with your ability to fall asleep. Try to avoid screens for at least an hour before bedtime.
5. Practice Relaxation Techniques: Incorporate relaxation techniques into your nightly routine. This could include deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation, or mindfulness meditation. Apps like Headspace or Calm can guide you through these practices.
6. Engage in Physical Activity: Regular physical activity can help reduce anxiety and improve sleep quality. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week, but try to avoid vigorous exercise close to bedtime.
7. Limit Caffeine and Alcohol: Both substances can interfere with sleep. Try to limit your intake, especially in the hours leading up to bedtime.
8. Journaling: Since you mentioned that you often ruminate before sleep, consider keeping a journal. Write down your thoughts and worries before bed to help clear your mind.
9. Social Support: While it may feel challenging, try to reach out to friends or family members. Sharing your feelings can be incredibly therapeutic. If direct conversation feels daunting, consider writing them a letter or message.
10. Self-Compassion: Be gentle with yourself. Understand that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed and that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Conclusion
Your situation is complex, and while these strategies may help improve your sleep and reduce anxiety, professional guidance is crucial. Mental health issues can be deeply intertwined with sleep disorders, and addressing them holistically will provide the best chance for improvement. Remember, you are not alone in this, and there are resources and people who can help you navigate through these challenges.
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