Learning and Stress
I am currently a student and I once studied extremely hard for the junior high school entrance exam.
I truly mean that I was studying to the point of exhaustion.
From the start of my preparation until the day of the exam, I actually slept no more than two hours a day.
Although I returned to a normal routine after the exam, I found that as soon as I went back to school, I would feel nauseous and even vomit, sometimes to the point of expelling blood-streaked bile.
After seeing a doctor for a while and taking medication for anxiety and depression, I experienced some improvement, but I began to suffer from insomnia and sporadic hives.
Moreover, I couldn't attend classes at school without breaking out in hives, and sometimes I even had thoughts of harming others.
My grades continued to decline, but I was afraid to talk to those around me; my parents are very conservative and often scold me about my grades.
Sometimes I wake up feeling an overwhelming sense of emptiness, questioning what I am doing with my life, and upon reflection, I realize that I have been stagnant since junior high.
I started to feel useless and even thought that maybe it would be better if I just died.
There are mornings when I wake up and inexplicably start crying, unable to stop, and I can't go to school all day.
I even have a sense that death would be a release.
BB, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/05/10
Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry
If you are worried that you might be suffering from depression, it indicates that your mental and physical condition is struggling to cope with stress.
It is advisable to seek help.
If possible, let your parents know about your recent mental and physical state.
Alternatively, you can reach out to a school teacher or a counselor at the guidance office.
Additionally, you should seek treatment at a mental health facility.
If you are unsure where to find one nearby, you can download the Mood Temperature App for inquiries, or call the 1925 Mental Health Hotline, the 1995 Lifeline, or the 1980 Teacher Zhang Hotline.
Most people who seek medical attention and receive medication and psychotherapy tend to recover.
Reply Date: 2020/05/10
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Managing academic pressure is a significant challenge for many students, particularly in high-stakes environments where performance is closely monitored and often tied to future opportunities. The experiences you've shared highlight the profound impact that academic stress can have on mental and physical health, leading to anxiety, depression, and various psychosomatic symptoms.
Firstly, it's essential to recognize that the intense pressure to perform academically can lead to a range of emotional and physical responses. Your experience of extreme study habits, such as sleeping only two hours a night, is a common reaction among students facing significant academic pressure. This lack of sleep can exacerbate feelings of anxiety and depression, as sleep is crucial for cognitive function, emotional regulation, and overall health. Chronic sleep deprivation can lead to a cycle of worsening mental health, as it impairs your ability to cope with stress and can lead to increased irritability and emotional instability.
The physical symptoms you described, such as nausea and vomiting, are also indicative of how stress can manifest in the body. The gastrointestinal system is particularly sensitive to stress, and symptoms like these can be a direct response to anxiety. It's not uncommon for students to experience such symptoms when they are under pressure, especially in academic settings. The fact that you experienced vomiting to the point of blood is alarming and suggests that the stress has reached a critical level, warranting immediate medical attention.
Your feelings of emptiness and despair, along with thoughts of self-harm, are serious indicators of depression. It's crucial to address these feelings with a mental health professional who can provide appropriate support and treatment. While medication can be beneficial for managing anxiety and depression, it is often most effective when combined with therapy. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), for example, can help you develop coping strategies to manage stress and change negative thought patterns that contribute to feelings of worthlessness.
The pressure from parents regarding academic performance can further exacerbate these feelings. It's important to communicate your struggles with someone you trust, whether it's a family member, a friend, or a school counselor. They can provide support and help you navigate these challenges. If your parents are unaware of the extent of your struggles, consider finding a way to express your feelings to them. They may not realize the impact their expectations are having on your mental health.
Additionally, developing healthy coping mechanisms is vital. Engaging in regular physical activity, practicing mindfulness or meditation, and ensuring you have a balanced diet can all contribute to better mental health. Finding hobbies or activities that bring you joy outside of academics can also provide a necessary outlet for stress relief.
Lastly, it's essential to remember that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Many students face similar challenges, and there are resources available to support you. Whether it's through school counseling services, mental health hotlines, or community resources, reaching out for help can be the first step toward feeling better.
In summary, managing academic pressure requires a multifaceted approach that includes addressing both the mental and physical symptoms of stress. Prioritize your well-being, seek professional help, and communicate openly about your struggles. You are not alone in this, and with the right support, it is possible to navigate these challenges and find a healthier balance in your academic life.
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