Why do I experience fantasies after finishing my studies?
Doctor, why do I find myself daydreaming or talking to myself unconsciously after finishing a novel? Sometimes, just standing up makes me feel dizzy and unstable, and I have to hold onto something to avoid falling.
I even experience inexplicable anger and end up taking it out on my classmates.
Why is this happening?
Sha Guo Bao Bei, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2010/03/19
Dr. Chen Wenyu reply Psychiatry
Hello, dear: After reading a novel, it's common to daydream! I believe if you ask any adult, they would have had similar experiences growing up.
For example, after reading a martial arts novel, one might fantasize about having lightness skills...
so it's normal! Suddenly standing up can cause dizziness.
Considering your age, you should have started menstruating, right? If so, do you experience heavy menstrual bleeding that could lead to anemia? Don't hesitate to ask; feel free to consult your female teachers or a physician.
If necessary, you can arrange for some essential tests.
It's understandable to feel inexplicable anger and take it out on classmates.
Your classmates are unfortunate; they haven't done anything wrong but become your outlet for frustration.
I believe you wouldn't like it if others treated you that way either! Everyone has impulses, especially when faced with challenges, and it's natural to feel angry.
If you can "slow down," give yourself a few extra seconds, take two or three deep breaths, and consider whether lashing out would unfairly affect others, this long-term self-adjustment can lead to a change in personality.
Most importantly, if you lose control and lash out, what should you do? Remember to say "I'm sorry" and offer a sincere apology; I believe you'll gain more friendships that way.
Don't you think? Thank you for your letter!
Reply Date: 2010/03/19
More Info
It sounds like you're experiencing a complex interplay of emotional and physical responses after reading novels, which can be quite common among individuals who engage deeply with literature. When we immerse ourselves in stories, our brains can react in various ways, leading to vivid fantasies and emotional responses. This phenomenon can be attributed to several psychological and physiological factors.
Firstly, reading fiction often stimulates our imagination and emotions. When you read, your brain activates areas associated with empathy and emotional processing, allowing you to connect with characters and their experiences. This connection can lead to a heightened state of emotional arousal, which may manifest as daydreaming or self-talk as you process the narrative and its implications in your own life. This is a normal response, as literature often serves as a mirror reflecting our own thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
However, the physical symptoms you describe, such as dizziness and difficulty standing, could indicate a more complex issue. These symptoms might be related to anxiety or stress responses triggered by the intense emotional engagement with the material. When we become emotionally overwhelmed, our bodies can react with physical symptoms, including dizziness, which may be exacerbated by standing up quickly. This is sometimes referred to as orthostatic hypotension, where blood pressure drops upon standing, leading to feelings of lightheadedness.
Moreover, the feelings of anger and frustration that you experience, particularly when directed at peers, may be a manifestation of unresolved emotions or stress. Engaging with emotionally charged narratives can sometimes bring underlying feelings to the surface, which may not be fully processed. If you find yourself feeling irritable or angry after reading, it might be helpful to explore these emotions further. Journaling about your feelings or discussing them with a trusted friend or therapist can provide clarity and help you manage these responses more effectively.
It's also worth considering the impact of your environment and daily stressors on your emotional state. If you are under significant stress or pressure in your academic or personal life, this can amplify your emotional responses to literature. Practicing mindfulness and grounding techniques can help you manage these feelings. Techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, or even short walks can help regulate your emotional state and reduce feelings of dizziness or anger.
In summary, your experiences of fantasizing and emotional responses after reading novels are likely a combination of psychological engagement with the material and physiological reactions to emotional arousal. If these symptoms persist or significantly interfere with your daily life, it may be beneficial to consult with a mental health professional. They can help you explore these feelings in greater depth and develop coping strategies tailored to your needs. Remember, it's essential to take care of both your mental and physical health, especially when navigating complex emotional landscapes.
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