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Men may experience itching upon contact with bodily fluids?


Hello, every time during my ovulation period when I have intercourse with my husband, he experiences itching when he comes into contact with my secretions.
Sometimes the itching is intense enough that he feels the urge to scratch.
Outside of the ovulation period, this situation is less frequent, but during ovulation, it occurs repeatedly.
Even when my bodily fluids touch his abdomen, he also feels itchy, and sometimes it becomes red.

Previously, I had a vaginal infection, and I thought this might be the cause.
However, after treatment, my vaginal sensations returned to normal, and I do not feel itchy, nor do I have any abnormal discharge.
Before the vaginal infection, there was no situation where my husband experienced itching from contact with my secretions during intercourse.
After the infection and subsequent treatment, this itching has persisted.

I consulted a doctor, and since my vaginal discharge appeared normal and there were no visible abnormalities, I explained the situation.
However, I do not experience itching myself, and the discharge is neither excessive nor clumpy.
The doctor prescribed antibiotics, but there has been no improvement.

What could be causing this? Why does my husband experience itching and even redness when he comes into contact with my bodily fluids?

pinggu, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2015/07/23

Dr. Lü Lizheng reply Obstetrics and Gynecology


1.
It is recommended to seek medical examination, especially during the ovulation period when the symptoms are present.

2.
There is a possibility that the vaginal inflammation was not completely treated, which may not cause issues normally but could worsen during ovulation.
If a visual inspection does not reveal anything, consider sampling the discharge for laboratory testing, including microscopic examination and culture for pathogens.

3.
You may also consult a dermatologist.

Sincerely, Dr.
Li-Cheng Lu, Taoyuan Hospital.

Reply Date: 2015/07/23

More Info


The symptoms your partner is experiencing, particularly the itching and redness upon contact with your body fluids during your ovulation period, can be quite distressing and may stem from several underlying causes. It is essential to approach this issue with a comprehensive understanding of both physiological and potential allergic reactions.

Firstly, during ovulation, hormonal changes can affect the vaginal environment. The increase in estrogen can lead to changes in the vaginal discharge, making it more abundant or altering its pH. While you may not feel any discomfort, your partner's skin could be reacting to these changes. The skin on the abdomen is sensitive, and any slight alteration in the chemical composition of your body fluids could lead to irritation or an allergic reaction.

Secondly, it’s important to consider the possibility of contact dermatitis. This condition occurs when the skin reacts to substances that come into contact with it. Even if you do not have any visible symptoms, your body fluids may contain proteins or other substances that could trigger an allergic response in your partner. This is particularly plausible if he has a history of allergies or sensitive skin.
Another potential cause could be a residual effect from the previous vaginal infection. Even after treatment, some individuals may experience lingering sensitivities or reactions. The body can sometimes take time to fully recover from infections, and the immune system may still be reactive to certain stimuli, including body fluids.

Moreover, it is crucial to rule out any sexually transmitted infections (STIs) or other infections that may not have been fully addressed. Although you mentioned that your vaginal discharge appears normal and you do not experience itching, it is still advisable for both partners to undergo a thorough examination to ensure that there are no underlying infections or conditions that could be contributing to the symptoms.

Given that your partner experiences these symptoms specifically during your ovulation period, it may also be beneficial to track any patterns. Keeping a diary of symptoms in relation to your menstrual cycle could provide valuable insights for your healthcare provider.
In terms of management, here are some steps you can consider:
1. Consult a Specialist: If you haven't already, it may be beneficial to see a dermatologist or an allergist who can perform tests to determine if there is an allergic reaction occurring. They may suggest patch testing to identify specific allergens.

2. Barrier Methods: Using condoms during intercourse can help prevent direct contact with body fluids, which may alleviate the itching and irritation your partner experiences.

3. Skin Care: Encourage your partner to use gentle, hypoallergenic skin care products on the affected area. This can help reduce irritation and maintain skin integrity.

4. Hydration and Moisturization: Keeping the skin well-hydrated can help reduce sensitivity. Consider using fragrance-free moisturizers to soothe the skin.

5. Monitor Symptoms: Keep track of when the symptoms occur and any other factors that may coincide, such as changes in diet, stress levels, or new products used.

6. Follow-Up: If symptoms persist despite these measures, a follow-up with a healthcare provider is essential. They may consider further testing or alternative treatments.

In conclusion, while the symptoms your partner is experiencing can be concerning, they are not uncommon. A thorough evaluation by a healthcare provider, along with careful monitoring and management, can help identify the cause and provide relief. Open communication with your partner about these experiences is also vital, as it can help both of you navigate this issue together.

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