Feeling Unhappy: Mental Health During Exam Stress - Psychiatry

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Feeling unhappy?


Recently, I've been preparing for exams and haven't interacted much with others.
I've basically been acting alone and feel like I can't find happiness every day.
I lack energy and spirit, and I have a negative outlook, but I can still study, eat, and go out.
My eating and sleeping patterns are normal, but I don't feel like I'm reaching my peak state; in fact, I feel a bit low.
Every time I suddenly notice my expression, I'm frowning and looking gloomy.
I'm not sure if this is something everyone experiences after long periods of studying or if it's actually a sign of illness.
How can I improve this? Listening to music doesn't help me; I feel happy in the moment, but once I start studying, I can't feel any joy.
Personally, I don't dislike studying at all, so I don't understand why I can't feel happy.
I'm sorry to bother you, and I appreciate your hard work.

A, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2022/11/19

Dr. Qiu Junda reply Psychiatry


Hello.
The issue of feeling unhappy, as you mentioned, requires further evaluation to determine whether it is a general case of negative emotions or has reached a level of illness.
I'm not sure if you have any short-term or long-term sources of stress.
I recommend that you consider visiting a mental health specialist for consultation or utilizing the 1925 mental health hotline for similar online counseling.
This may be beneficial.

Reply Date: 2022/11/19

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Feeling unhappy and lacking motivation during exam preparation is a common experience, especially among students facing high levels of stress. It’s important to recognize that what you’re feeling may not just be a temporary phase but could be indicative of underlying mental health issues, such as anxiety or depression. Here’s a comprehensive look at what you might be experiencing and some strategies to help improve your situation.


Understanding Your Feelings
1. Stress and Anxiety: The pressure of exams can lead to significant stress and anxiety, which can manifest in various ways, including physical symptoms (like fatigue and muscle tension) and emotional symptoms (like sadness and irritability). It’s not uncommon to feel overwhelmed, especially if you’re studying alone and not engaging with peers.

2. Isolation: Studying alone can exacerbate feelings of loneliness and unhappiness. Social interaction is crucial for mental well-being, and a lack of it can lead to negative emotions. When you’re isolated, it’s easy to spiral into negative thinking patterns, which can further diminish your motivation and enjoyment in studying.

3. Loss of Interest: The inability to find joy in activities you once enjoyed, such as studying, can be a sign of depression. This phenomenon, known as anhedonia, can make it difficult to engage with your studies effectively.

4. Physical Symptoms: You mentioned feeling physically drained and noticing changes in your expression. Stress can lead to muscle tension, headaches, and fatigue, which can further impact your mood and motivation.


Strategies for Improvement
1. Seek Social Support: Try to connect with classmates or friends, even if it’s just for a short study session or a casual chat. Engaging with others can help alleviate feelings of isolation and provide a support system during stressful times.

2. Set Realistic Goals: Break your study material into manageable chunks and set achievable goals for each study session. This can help you feel a sense of accomplishment and reduce feelings of being overwhelmed.

3. Incorporate Breaks and Rewards: Schedule regular breaks during your study sessions to recharge. Use these breaks to do something enjoyable, like taking a walk, practicing a hobby, or simply relaxing. Rewarding yourself for completing tasks can also boost your motivation.

4. Practice Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep-breathing exercises, can help reduce anxiety and improve your overall mood. Even a few minutes of mindfulness each day can make a significant difference.

5. Physical Activity: Regular exercise is a powerful tool for improving mood and reducing stress. Aim for at least 30 minutes of physical activity most days of the week. This could be anything from a brisk walk to a workout class.

6. Healthy Lifestyle Choices: Ensure you’re eating well and getting enough sleep. A balanced diet and adequate rest are crucial for maintaining energy levels and emotional stability.

7. Consider Professional Help: If your feelings of unhappiness persist or worsen, it may be beneficial to seek help from a mental health professional. They can provide you with coping strategies and, if necessary, discuss treatment options such as therapy or medication.

8. Limit Caffeine and Stimulants: While caffeine can provide a temporary boost in energy, it can also increase anxiety and disrupt sleep patterns. Consider reducing your intake, especially during stressful periods.


Conclusion
Feeling unhappy and unmotivated during exam preparation is a serious concern that should not be overlooked. It’s essential to take proactive steps to address these feelings and improve your mental health. Remember, it’s okay to seek help and talk about your experiences with trusted friends, family, or professionals. By implementing some of the strategies mentioned above, you can work towards regaining your motivation and finding joy in your studies again. Your mental health is just as important as your academic success, so prioritize it accordingly.

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