excuse me?
Dr.
Jiang, I am a student who has just completed the university entrance examination.
In the past, I often felt annoyed and very irritable, especially with my parents constantly nagging me.
Initially, I thought it might be due to the pressure of applying to schools.
However, recently I have been feeling down and increasingly agitated.
What should I do?
Julia, 10~19 year old female. Ask Date: 2002/08/03
Dr. Jiang Shujuan reply Psychiatry
Ms.
Julia: Based on your description, a psychiatric diagnosis cannot be made at this time.
If the aforementioned symptoms persist for more than two weeks without improvement or show signs of worsening, it is advisable to seek help at the outpatient psychiatric department of any hospital for a comprehensive evaluation by a physician for further management.
Reply Date: 2002/08/03
More Info
Coping with post-exam stress and emotional turmoil is a common challenge faced by many students, especially after significant academic assessments like university entrance exams. The feelings of frustration, irritability, and sadness that you are experiencing can stem from a variety of factors, including the pressure of academic expectations, the stress of preparing for exams, and the emotional aftermath of the testing experience itself.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that your feelings are valid. The transition from a high-pressure environment, such as preparing for and taking exams, to the post-exam phase can be jarring. You may find yourself grappling with a sense of loss or emptiness after the intense focus on studying and testing. This is a normal reaction, and many students experience similar feelings.
Here are some strategies that may help you cope with post-exam stress and emotional turmoil:
1. Allow Yourself to Feel: It's okay to feel frustrated or sad. Allow yourself to experience these emotions without judgment. Sometimes, simply acknowledging how you feel can be a significant first step toward healing.
2. Talk About It: Sharing your feelings with someone you trust—be it a friend, family member, or counselor—can provide relief. Expressing your thoughts can help you process your emotions and gain perspective.
3. Engage in Relaxation Techniques: Incorporating relaxation techniques into your routine can help alleviate stress. Consider practices such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, or yoga. These activities can help calm your mind and body, making it easier to manage anxiety and irritability.
4. Physical Activity: Exercise is a powerful stress reliever. Engaging in physical activity, whether it's going for a walk, jogging, or participating in a sport, can boost your mood and reduce feelings of anxiety. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate exercise most days of the week.
5. Establish a Routine: After the chaos of exam preparation, establishing a daily routine can provide structure and a sense of normalcy. Include time for studying, relaxation, socializing, and pursuing hobbies. This balance can help you feel more in control and less overwhelmed.
6. Limit Exposure to Stressors: If certain situations or conversations, such as discussions about future academic plans, trigger your stress, try to limit your exposure to them. Politely excuse yourself from conversations that make you uncomfortable, and focus on topics that bring you joy.
7. Seek Professional Help: If your feelings of frustration and sadness persist or worsen, it may be beneficial to seek help from a mental health professional. A therapist or counselor can provide support and strategies tailored to your specific needs. They can help you explore underlying issues and develop coping mechanisms.
8. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself during this time. Understand that it's okay to not have everything figured out right away. Allow yourself the grace to take things one step at a time.
9. Engage in Enjoyable Activities: Reconnect with activities that you enjoy and that bring you happiness. Whether it's reading, drawing, playing music, or spending time with friends, engaging in enjoyable activities can help lift your spirits.
10. Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques: Practicing mindfulness can help you stay present and reduce anxiety about the future. Grounding techniques, such as focusing on your surroundings or engaging your senses, can help bring your attention back to the present moment.
In conclusion, coping with post-exam stress and emotional turmoil is a process that requires patience and self-care. By implementing these strategies, you can better manage your emotions and navigate this challenging time. Remember, it's perfectly okay to seek help if you need it. You are not alone in this experience, and there are resources available to support you.
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