Navigating Autism: A Mother's Journey and Concerns After Four Years of Therapy

Children with autism

During my first childbirth, I experienced a difficult labor that lasted for three days and nights before I had to undergo a cesarean section.
My son may have suffered from cerebral hypoxia, which could affect his future development.
Before he turned one, I began taking him to see doctors regularly, and nine times out of ten, he was diagnosed as being on the autism spectrum.
Although I struggled to accept this reality, I never gave up and always did my best.
I enrolled him in sensory integration therapy, special education, and kindergarten, among other programs.
Now that he is four years old, all the signs of autism have become apparent! Recently, another doctor diagnosed him with mild autism, and I am deeply shaken by this news.
I feel very anxious! I would like to know if, after four years of effort, the critical period for treatment has passed and if there is still hope for him.

Sincerely, an anxious mother.

Jiao Lü de Mu Qin, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2007/04/20

Dr. Chen Xianchang reply Rehabilitation

1.
Autism must be diagnosed before the age of 2 and a half, characterized by a lack of social interaction, self-stimulatory behaviors, solitary play, and making nonsensical sounds, along with the persistence of subsequent symptoms.
2.
While early intervention is ideal, any time parents and teachers fully cooperate can also be effective.
3.
There are many books available, such as "The Four Books for Star Children" (a series of four volumes), that can be referenced.
4.
Seek early treatment at a rehabilitation department that offers early intervention services.

Reply Date: 2007/04/20

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Dear Concerned Mother,
First and foremost, I want to acknowledge the immense dedication and effort you have put into your son's care over the past four years. Navigating the complexities of autism, especially after a challenging birth experience, is no small feat. Your commitment to seeking therapy and educational support for your son reflects a deep love and desire for his well-being.

Regarding your concerns about whether the "golden period" for treatment has passed, it's important to clarify what this period means. The "golden period" often refers to early intervention, which is crucial in the development of children with autism. Research indicates that early and intensive intervention can lead to significant improvements in communication, social skills, and overall functioning. However, this does not mean that progress cannot be made later on. While early intervention is beneficial, children with autism can continue to learn and develop skills well into their later years.
Your son is currently four years old, and while he has been diagnosed with mild autism, this does not signify a lack of potential or hope for progress. Children with autism can show remarkable improvements with the right support, therapies, and educational strategies. It’s essential to continue providing him with opportunities for growth and development.
In terms of therapy, consider a multi-faceted approach that includes Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), speech therapy, occupational therapy, and social skills training. Each of these therapies can address different aspects of your son's development and help him navigate social interactions, communication, and daily living skills.
Additionally, it’s crucial to maintain open communication with your healthcare providers. Regular assessments can help tailor interventions to your son’s evolving needs. If you feel that the current therapies are not yielding the desired results, don’t hesitate to seek second opinions or explore new therapeutic options.
Your anxiety is completely understandable, especially when faced with the challenges of raising a child with autism. It’s essential to take care of your mental health as well. Consider joining support groups for parents of children with autism. These groups can provide emotional support, practical advice, and a sense of community. Sharing experiences with others who understand your journey can be incredibly validating and comforting.

Lastly, remember that every child is unique. While your son may exhibit certain characteristics associated with autism, he also has his individual strengths and abilities. Celebrate his achievements, no matter how small, and focus on fostering his interests and talents. Encouragement and positive reinforcement can significantly impact his self-esteem and motivation.

In conclusion, while the diagnosis may feel overwhelming, it is not a definitive statement about your son’s future. With continued support, therapy, and love, he can make significant strides in his development. Your journey as a mother is vital, and your efforts will undoubtedly contribute to his growth. Stay hopeful, stay informed, and continue advocating for your son’s needs. You are not alone in this journey, and there is a community ready to support you.

Warm regards,
Doctor Q&A Teams

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