Doubts about self-worth..?
Hello, Doctor: I would like to ask if doctors have preferences for their patients.
No one in my life is willing to talk to me about my feelings, and the doctor seems eager to finish my appointment.
I just want a little proactive concern; is that too much to ask? I'm tired...
Why do I always feel like I'm not suited to be in this world and that I’m just a burden to others? Am I meant to just accommodate everyone? I feel so ordinary.
Benben, 40~49 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/11/20
Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry
Hello, Benben: Please discuss this with your doctor during your follow-up appointment this week.
Thank you for your efforts.
Reply Date: 2016/11/20
More Info
Navigating mental health issues, particularly feelings of low self-worth and isolation, can be incredibly challenging. Your concerns about how healthcare professionals perceive their patients and the desire for genuine connection and understanding are valid and important. It's essential to recognize that mental health is a complex field, and the experiences of patients can vary widely.
Firstly, regarding your question about whether doctors have preferences or biases towards their patients, it's important to understand that healthcare professionals are trained to provide care without personal bias. However, like all humans, they may have their own feelings and experiences that can influence their interactions. Most doctors strive to be empathetic and supportive, but the pressures of their workload can sometimes lead to a perception of being rushed or detached. This does not reflect a lack of care; rather, it may be a result of systemic issues within healthcare that prioritize efficiency over personal connection.
Feeling like a burden or believing that you are not suited for the world can stem from deep-seated feelings of inadequacy, which are often exacerbated by mental health struggles. It's crucial to challenge these thoughts. You are not a burden; your feelings and experiences are valid. Everyone has intrinsic worth, and your existence contributes to the fabric of the world, even if it may not feel that way at times.
If you find that your healthcare provider is not meeting your emotional needs, it may be beneficial to seek a second opinion or find a therapist who specializes in mental health. A good therapist can provide a safe space for you to express your feelings and work through your thoughts about self-worth and connection. They can help you develop coping strategies and challenge negative thought patterns that contribute to feelings of inadequacy.
Additionally, consider exploring support groups, either in-person or online. Connecting with others who share similar experiences can help alleviate feelings of isolation. These groups can provide a sense of community and understanding that may be lacking in your current social circles.
Engaging in self-care practices can also be beneficial. Activities such as journaling, mindfulness, and physical exercise can help improve your mood and foster a sense of accomplishment. Finding hobbies or interests that bring you joy can also enhance your sense of self-worth and provide a distraction from negative thoughts.
It's important to remember that recovery is a journey, and it's okay to seek help along the way. If you ever feel overwhelmed or have thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a mental health professional or a crisis hotline immediately. You deserve support and care, and there are people who want to help you through this difficult time.
In summary, while it can feel isolating and burdensome to navigate mental health challenges, know that you are not alone. Seek out supportive relationships, whether through healthcare providers, therapists, or peer support groups. Your feelings are valid, and with the right support, you can work towards a healthier self-image and a more fulfilling life.
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