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During my school years, I felt the pressure of academic advancement, where the emphasis was heavily placed on obtaining diplomas.
At that time, I was in a class that ranked at the bottom, which made it difficult for me to feel happy.
Influenced by a singular value system, I began to see myself as merely a passerby, thinking that there would always be another destination ahead.
In that environment, my teachers often said I was self-reliant.
Even years after graduating, I still do not participate in class reunions, possibly because I lack a sense of belonging.
While I enjoy looking at photos of my former classmates on Facebook, I can confidently say that it does not motivate me to reach out to them.
Perhaps it merely satisfies my curiosity.
I do not feel compelled to improve relationships or change my thoughts; I just recognize that I was indifferent towards others during that time.
Sometimes, with the passage of time, I believe that period of my life holds little significance for me.
I wonder if a physician could offer some insight on this matter.
Wu, 30~39 year old female. Ask Date: 2016/03/08
Dr. Liang Sunyuan reply Psychiatry
Hello: I suggest you focus on your current life, making it more fulfilling and meaningful, which should help you feel more grounded.
Wishing you all the best.
Reply Date: 2016/03/08
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Navigating academic pressure, especially during formative years, can be a daunting experience for many students. The pressure to excel, particularly in a competitive environment, often leads to feelings of inadequacy, anxiety, and even depression. Your reflections on feeling like a mere "passenger" in your educational journey resonate with many who have faced similar challenges. The societal emphasis on academic achievement can create a narrow definition of success, which may not align with individual aspirations or self-worth.
It's important to recognize that feelings of disconnection and isolation, such as those you described, are common among students who feel overwhelmed by academic expectations. The pressure to perform can lead to a cycle of negative self-talk and a diminished sense of belonging. This is particularly true if you perceive your academic environment as competitive or if you feel that your achievements are not recognized or valued by peers or educators.
One of the key aspects of addressing these feelings is to foster a sense of connection and community. Engaging with peers, even in small ways, can help alleviate feelings of isolation. While it may feel daunting, reaching out to classmates or participating in group activities can create opportunities for meaningful interactions. These connections can provide emotional support and help you feel more integrated into your academic environment.
Additionally, it’s crucial to challenge the notion that your worth is solely tied to academic performance. Developing a broader perspective on success can be liberating. This might involve exploring interests outside of academics, such as hobbies, sports, or volunteer work, which can provide a sense of fulfillment and purpose that is not contingent on grades or rankings.
Seeking professional help can also be beneficial. A mental health professional can provide strategies to cope with anxiety and feelings of inadequacy. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), for example, is an effective approach for addressing negative thought patterns and developing healthier coping mechanisms. Therapy can also help you explore underlying issues related to self-esteem and identity, allowing you to redefine your relationship with academic success.
Moreover, it’s essential to practice self-compassion. Acknowledge that it’s okay to struggle and that many others share similar experiences. Instead of being critical of yourself for feeling disconnected or unmotivated, try to approach these feelings with kindness and understanding. This shift in mindset can significantly impact your emotional well-being.
Lastly, consider discussing your feelings with trusted individuals in your life, whether they are friends, family members, or mentors. Sharing your experiences can provide relief and may lead to valuable insights or support. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and there are resources available to help you navigate the complexities of academic pressure and mental health.
In summary, while academic pressure can be overwhelming, it’s important to seek connection, challenge negative self-perceptions, and consider professional support. By taking proactive steps to address these feelings, you can cultivate a more positive and fulfilling academic experience.
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