Overcoming Negative Emotions: Seeking Help Without Guilt - Psychiatry

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Prolonged negative emotions and thoughts of death?


Hello, Doctor: I apologize for reaching out again.
Thank you for your response to my previous message.
I have downloaded the mood thermometer app and initially gathered the courage to make an online appointment with a nearby mental health specialist.
However, after reading many articles, I feel like I'm making a big deal out of nothing and want to cancel the appointment.
I'm really afraid of wasting medical resources and the doctor's time.
I'm also worried that when I enter the consultation room, I won't know what to say (I often lose my ability to speak on this topic, to the point where I can't make a sound, and I don't know why), and my mind goes completely blank.
Doctor, should I just maintain the status quo and leave medical resources for those who need help more? I'm really sorry to bother you again...

Zi Yin, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2020/06/20

Dr. Wu Enliang reply Psychiatry


Hello, netizen: May I ask what score you received on the mood thermometer? If it's 10 or below, I still recommend consulting a specialist.
If it's 15 or above, or if you have suicidal thoughts rated at 2 or above, you definitely need to seek medical attention! Dr.
Wu Enliang

Reply Date: 2020/06/20

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It's completely understandable to feel hesitant about seeking help for your mental health, especially when you are grappling with feelings of guilt or inadequacy. Many individuals in similar situations often question whether their struggles are significant enough to warrant professional assistance. However, it's crucial to recognize that mental health issues can affect anyone, regardless of the severity of their symptoms. Your feelings are valid, and seeking help is a proactive step toward improving your well-being.

Firstly, it's important to understand that mental health professionals are trained to help individuals from all walks of life, regardless of the severity of their issues. They are there to provide support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your unique situation. The notion that you might be "wasting" resources is a common concern, but remember that healthcare systems are designed to support everyone. By seeking help, you are not only taking care of yourself but also contributing to a culture that encourages others to seek help when they need it.

If you find it difficult to articulate your feelings or experiences during a consultation, consider preparing in advance. You might write down your thoughts, feelings, and any specific incidents that have contributed to your emotional state. This can serve as a guide during your appointment, helping you communicate more effectively. Remember, it’s okay to take your time to express yourself; mental health professionals are accustomed to working with individuals who may struggle to find the right words.

Using tools like mood-tracking apps is a great start, as they can help you identify patterns in your emotions and behaviors. This information can be valuable when discussing your feelings with a therapist or psychiatrist. It can provide them with insights into your emotional landscape, making it easier for them to assist you.

Moreover, maintaining the status quo is not always the best option, especially if you are experiencing distressing emotions. While it might feel comfortable to avoid seeking help, it can lead to a cycle of negative feelings that may worsen over time. Engaging with a mental health professional can provide you with coping strategies, emotional support, and a safe space to explore your feelings without judgment.

If you are still unsure, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member to discuss your feelings about seeking help. Sometimes, sharing your concerns with someone who cares about you can alleviate some of the pressure and guilt you may feel. They might even encourage you to take that step toward seeking help.

Lastly, remember that you are not alone in this journey. Many people have faced similar feelings of doubt and guilt when considering therapy or counseling. The important thing is to prioritize your mental health and well-being. Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. It shows that you are willing to confront your challenges and work towards a healthier, happier life.

In conclusion, do not hesitate to seek help if you feel you need it. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health, and taking steps to address it is a commendable act. You deserve support and care, and there are professionals ready to help you navigate your feelings and experiences.

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