Balanced Diet: Overcoming Guilt and Healthy Weight Loss - Nutrition

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Hello~~ I would like to ask~~ my height is 165 cm and a few days ago my weight was 43 kg.
Recently, I have been eating a lot, and my weight suddenly increased to 45 kg.
I feel very guilty.
I previously saw reports and I feel like I might have binge eating disorder and anorexia.
I think I am in a bad situation~~~ My previous weight was 50 kg, and now I am thinner.
Now that I am at 45 kg, I want to lose weight again.
Is this considered a disorder? Also, could you please advise me on how to lose weight healthily?

Ru Meimei, 20~29 year old female. Ask Date: 2005/02/17

Dr. Ke Qiuliang reply Nutrition


Hello, Ms.
Ru: I apologize for the delay in my response due to a busy schedule.
Based on your height, your ideal weight is estimated to be around 53.8-65.7 kg.
Your current weight is already too low; I am curious about your usual dietary habits.
Weight loss should occur under the condition of a balanced diet (which includes six major food groups daily).
In addition to dietary control, regular and appropriate exercise is also necessary.
Since you currently feel guilty about gaining weight, I recommend that you seek assistance from a psychiatrist at a hospital and avoid self-medicating.
Wishing you peace and health as the autumn cools down.

Reply Date: 2005/02/17

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Hello! Thank you for reaching out with your concerns about your weight and eating habits. It's important to address these feelings of guilt and anxiety regarding food and body image, as they can significantly impact your mental and physical health.

First, let's clarify your current situation. At a height of 165 cm and a weight of 45 kg, your Body Mass Index (BMI) is approximately 16.5, which classifies you as underweight according to the World Health Organization's standards. While it's understandable to feel concerned about weight fluctuations, it's crucial to prioritize your overall health rather than focusing solely on numbers on a scale.

The feelings of guilt you experience after eating are common, especially in a society that often emphasizes thinness and dieting. However, it's essential to recognize that food is not the enemy. Instead, it serves as fuel for your body and plays a vital role in maintaining your health. If you find yourself oscillating between binge eating and restricting food intake, it may be beneficial to seek professional help from a healthcare provider or a registered dietitian who specializes in eating disorders. They can provide you with the support and guidance you need to develop a healthier relationship with food.

Regarding your question about healthy weight loss, it's important to approach this goal with a balanced mindset. Here are some key principles to consider:
1. Balanced Diet: Focus on consuming a variety of foods from all food groups. This includes whole grains, lean proteins, healthy fats, fruits, and vegetables. Each food group provides essential nutrients that your body needs to function optimally.

2. Portion Control: Instead of drastically cutting calories, aim to practice portion control. This means being mindful of the amount of food you consume without completely restricting yourself from enjoying your favorite foods. Allow yourself to indulge occasionally, as this can help reduce feelings of deprivation that often lead to binge eating.

3. Regular Meals: Skipping meals can lead to increased hunger and cravings, making it more likely that you'll overeat later. Aim to eat regular meals and snacks throughout the day to keep your energy levels stable and prevent extreme hunger.

4. Physical Activity: Incorporating regular physical activity into your routine can help you maintain a healthy weight and improve your overall well-being. Find activities you enjoy, whether it's walking, dancing, yoga, or any other form of exercise that keeps you moving.

5. Mindful Eating: Practice mindful eating by paying attention to your hunger and fullness cues. This means eating slowly, savoring each bite, and being aware of how your body feels during and after meals. This practice can help you develop a more intuitive approach to eating.

6. Seek Support: Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who understand your journey. Consider joining a support group or seeking professional help if you're struggling with disordered eating patterns.

7. Set Realistic Goals: Instead of aiming for rapid weight loss, focus on setting realistic and achievable goals. A gradual weight loss of 0.5 to 1 kg per week is considered healthy and sustainable.

In conclusion, it's essential to prioritize your health and well-being over societal pressures regarding weight. If you continue to experience feelings of guilt or anxiety around food, or if you suspect you may have an eating disorder, please seek help from a qualified professional. Remember, your worth is not determined by your weight, and taking care of your mental and physical health should always come first.

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