Navigating Anxiety and Sexual Orientation: A Student's Journey
Sexual orientation issues Hello Doctor, I reached out to you through this system on August 20, and I appreciate your response. I have been working on adjusting my mood; however, my anxiety continues to fluctuate. When I am busy, I feel okay, but whenever I have a moment to rela...
Dr. Lin Mianzhang Reply:
Hello, classmate: It seems that you may be feeling anxious on one hand due to uncertainty about your sexual orientation, and on the other hand, because you are worried about being homosexual. Regarding how to determine your sexual orientation, I previously mentioned that it’s imp...[Read More] Navigating Anxiety and Sexual Orientation: A Student's Journey
Understanding Sexual Orientation: A Teen's Journey of Self-Discovery
Am I really gay? Hello, doctor. I am a 13-year-old middle school student. Recently, I found my fifth-grade younger brother very cute and playfully tapped him on the butt, which made me feel like I might be gay. This has made me very anxious because I strongly dislike homosexualit...
Dr. Liang Sunyuan Reply:
Hello Ben, it's quite normal to find children adorable, and there's no need to overly worry just because of that. At the age of 13, they are still in a developmental stage, so it's advisable to focus on learning and daily life. Occasionally, it's inevitable to...[Read More] Understanding Sexual Orientation: A Teen's Journey of Self-Discovery
Navigating Anxiety and Sexual Identity: Seeking Clarity and Support
Feeling depressed? Hello, doctor. Recently, I've been feeling quite depressed and anxious. The reasons include my desire to improve academically and achieve good scores on the college entrance exam. Additionally, I've been feeling uncertain about my sexual orientation. ...
Dr. Liao Dinglie Reply:
Hello, online friend: At the age of 17, it's a time when everything is possible, yet everything is also subject to doubt. Sometimes, the emotional struggles and mental pressures can be quite significant. In this age group, we often grapple with questions like "Who am I ...[Read More] Navigating Anxiety and Sexual Identity: Seeking Clarity and Support
Navigating Anxiety and Uncertainty: Understanding Sexual Orientation in Adolescence
Anxiety and uncertainty factors? Hello, Dr. Lin. I am currently in high school (I attend an all-boys school), and I am experiencing significant academic pressure, which makes me more prone to anxiety. Recently, I have some matters on my mind that I would like to discuss with you,...
Dr. Lin Mianzhang Reply:
Hello, A-Ding: Sexual orientation is innate and generally does not change due to external influences. If it could, then past treatments claiming to "correct" homosexuality would have been effective; in fact, homosexuality is not a disorder and does not require treatment...[Read More] Navigating Anxiety and Uncertainty: Understanding Sexual Orientation in Adolescence
Understanding Sexual Orientation Confusion: A Guide for Young Men
Sexual orientation confusion Hello doctor, I am a 24-year-old male from Taipei who has been "single since birth" and has "no sexual experience." After reading many responses, I still feel uneasy, so I would like to consult you personally. My biggest issue righ...
Dr. Wu Menghuan Reply:
Hello: Current medical understanding suggests that sexual orientation is innate, and no sexual orientation is considered a disorder or requires treatment. Everyone has their own unique personality and temperament. It seems that you may be struggling with the need to boost your co...[Read More] Understanding Sexual Orientation Confusion: A Guide for Young Men
Navigating Sexual Orientation and Anxiety: A High School Student's Journey
Sexual orientation, anxiety I am the high school student who asked you about sexual orientation a few days ago. After reading your response, I reflected on it carefully and felt better. I started to wonder if it’s possible that I have been subconsciously trying to confirm whether...
Dr. Lin Mianzhang Reply:
Hi there! The influence of the subconscious that you mentioned is indeed one possible reason, but it could also simply be due to curiosity about sexuality, which can lead to such phenomena. The brain tends to operate in a way where the more you try to suppress a thought, desire, ...[Read More] Navigating Sexual Orientation and Anxiety: A High School Student's Journey
Understanding Sexual Orientation Doubts and Anxiety in Adolescents
Sexual orientation, anxiety Hello, doctor. Recently, I've been feeling uncertain about my sexual orientation, which has made me quite anxious. I often wonder if I might be gay. Until now, I have never doubted my sexual orientation; I have always liked girls and even had crus...
Dr. Lin Mianzhang Reply:
Hi there! Regarding the reasons for sexual orientation, they remain unclear at this time. However, it is generally believed that sexual orientation is not something one can choose, and that innate factors play a significant role. Therefore, you don't need to worry that quest...[Read More] Understanding Sexual Orientation Doubts and Anxiety in Adolescents
Understanding Sexual Orientation Confusion: A Mental Health Perspective
Sexual orientation issues Hello, doctor. Last summer, while I was taking a nap at my relative's house, I accidentally saw my cousin in an erect state (it was my cousin, not me). After that, I felt strange for a while, and I couldn't quite describe the feeling. I started...
Dr. Wang Zhenyang Reply:
Hello A-Cheng: Regarding sexual orientation, from a psychoanalytic perspective, everyone has varying degrees of bisexuality. The extremes of heterosexuality and homosexuality represent the endpoints of a spectrum, and most people fall somewhere along this continuum. Furthermore, ...[Read More] Understanding Sexual Orientation Confusion: A Mental Health Perspective
Am I Gay? Understanding Sexual Orientation and OCD Concerns
Am I gay? Hello, doctor. I am a 24-year-old male and have been in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend. I really want to continue with her, but recently I've been feeling uncertain about my sexual orientation. I came across the term "sexual orientation OCD" ...
Dr. Wang Yazhen Reply:
Hello: In psychiatric diagnosis, the presence of "physiological responses to a specific gender" is not used to determine whether an individual has "gender dysphoria." Sexual physiological responses can be triggered through various pathways and are not directly...[Read More] Am I Gay? Understanding Sexual Orientation and OCD Concerns
Navigating Sexual Orientation Doubts: Understanding Your Feelings
Sexual orientation issues Hello, Doctor! Recently, I've been constantly questioning my sexual orientation. Until now, I believed I was heterosexual, but about a month before my major exams, I started to think of myself as homosexual. However, in more relaxed situations, I do...
Dr. Wang Yazhen Reply:
Dear student, You are taking your situation very seriously, which is commendable, and I understand that it can be quite concerning for you. First of all, the notion of having a "boyish personality" inherently categorizes personality traits as male or female. In realit...[Read More] Navigating Sexual Orientation Doubts: Understanding Your Feelings
Understanding Sexual Orientation OCD: Navigating Doubts and Feelings
Sexual Orientation OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) Hello Doctor, here is my recent situation: I find myself repeatedly questioning whether I am homosexual, reflecting on various past experiences. I think about whether I have a tendency towards homosexuality, feeling that I ap...
Dr. Liu Shikai Reply:
Hello, based on your message, it seems that your repetitive thoughts are related to sexual orientation. According to past medical and sociological research, it is indeed common for some individuals to experience varying degrees of shifts in sexual orientation during and after pub...[Read More] Understanding Sexual Orientation OCD: Navigating Doubts and Feelings
Struggling with Sexual Identity: Navigating Feelings for Both Genders
I don't want to be gay? I have a girl I like and want to date her, but I also have sexual desires for men. I watch male-male sexual activities, but I don't want to identify as gay, and my family is very opposed to homosexuality, which adds to my stress. I think about th...
Dr. Zhong Mingxun Reply:
During the process of growth, it is natural to experience curiosity and confusion. There is no need to view the growth process solely as a means to an end. It is advisable to go with the flow. If you still feel very anxious, you might consider visiting a mental health professiona...[Read More] Struggling with Sexual Identity: Navigating Feelings for Both Genders
Understanding Sexual Orientation Doubts: A Guide for Young Men
Constantly overthinking and doubting my sexual orientation? I am a male, but I constantly find myself questioning whether I am attracted to girls or boys. I feel a sense of impulse when I see girls, but I do not feel the same way about boys. Online tests regarding my sexual orien...
Dr. Lin Mianzhang Reply:
Hello Mr. Chen: Based on your description, it seems that you are heterosexual. However, the reason for your doubts about your sexual orientation requires a physician to conduct a more detailed assessment in person to make a proper judgment. I recommend that you seek consultation ...[Read More] Understanding Sexual Orientation Doubts: A Guide for Young Men
Understanding Emotional Attachment: Is It Homosexuality or Something Else?
This isn't homosexuality, right? I would like to ask the doctor if I have homosexual tendencies, or if this is considered abnormal. Thank you for taking the time to answer! I am 20 years old and have liked my middle school female teacher for 5-6 years. Personally, I do not l...
Dr. Liang Sunyuan Reply:
Hello: It's difficult to definitively say yes or no in such situations; human emotions can sometimes be hard to categorize. Each person is unique, and the interactions between individuals are also one-of-a-kind and difficult to classify. I suggest not to be overly anxious or...[Read More] Understanding Emotional Attachment: Is It Homosexuality or Something Else?
Understanding Dissociative Identity Disorder: Myths and Realities
Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) / Dissociation Hello, I would like to ask if dissociative identity disorder (formerly known as multiple personality disorder) is classified as a mental illness. If it is currently classified as such, will it one day be removed from the DSM lik...
Dr. Li Zhengfeng Reply:
Hello: Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) is classified as a mental illness. Is there a possibility that one day it could be removed from the DSM like homosexuality? The likelihood is low. Typically, individuals with Dissociative Identity Disorder have poor occupational and soc...[Read More] Understanding Dissociative Identity Disorder: Myths and Realities
Understanding Gender Identity Disorder: Can Psychiatry Help Me Cope?
Gender identity disorder - Can seeing a psychiatrist help me adjust better? Hello, Doctor: I am very aware that I have gender identity disorder. I have never served in the military, and life feels to me like acting while wearing a mask. My appearance is indistinguishable from tha...
Dr. Ding Shuyan Reply:
Hello, there are some deeply rooted issues that, if they do not harm others, I suggest accepting their existence rather than trying to change them. This is a form of self-compassion and self-love. Very few people are completely satisfied with themselves; for instance, I have feat...[Read More] Understanding Gender Identity Disorder: Can Psychiatry Help Me Cope?
Understanding Sexual Orientation: Identifying Gay vs. Bisexual
Homosexual? Bisexual? Doctor: What indicators can help distinguish between homosexuality and bisexuality? I have an interest in women, but I am also not opposed to attractive men. I'm unclear about my feelings regarding my sexual orientation, which is causing me confusion!
Dr. Zheng Jingming Reply:
Sexual orientation refers to a persistent attraction to members of a specific gender in terms of sexual and emotional relationships. In simple terms, it describes whether a person is attracted to the opposite sex (heterosexual), attracted to the same sex (homosexual), or attracte...[Read More] Understanding Sexual Orientation: Identifying Gay vs. Bisexual
Can Sexual Orientation Change? Understanding Fluidity in Attraction
Sexual orientation issues Hello, Doctor: I would like to ask if it is possible to transition from heterosexuality to homosexuality. In the past, I did not have any feelings for the same sex, but over the past few years, I have spent a lot of time with a person of the same sex and...
Dr. Chen Wenyu Reply:
In this situation, most individuals are originally bisexual rather than having transitioned later. They may not have been aware of it initially but gradually discover their sexual orientation upon encountering someone they like. There is no right or wrong in sexual orientation. H...[Read More] Can Sexual Orientation Change? Understanding Fluidity in Attraction
Understanding My Sexuality: Am I Gay or Just Confused?
I am not sure if I am gay..? I am 19 years old and I have been questioning my sexual orientation for a long time. I find myself attracted to the bodies of men, specifically those who are muscular and fit. Looking at them can lead to arousal and a desire to masturbate, and I often...
Dr. Zheng Jingming Reply:
From the current medical perspective, homosexuality is simply a different personal sexual orientation. If one can accept and identify with it, it is not considered pathological; homosexual individuals are no different from others. Before determining whether one is homosexual, it ...[Read More] Understanding My Sexuality: Am I Gay or Just Confused?
Am I Gay? Understanding My Attraction to Male Anatomy
Am I gay??? I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that.
Dr. Su Zongwei Reply:
Homosexuality refers to individuals who experience sexual attraction to members of the same sex and may even achieve orgasm with them.[Read More] Am I Gay? Understanding My Attraction to Male Anatomy